The above is something that I do on a regular basis when going about my day. Whether it’s when being bumped into on the tube, when in meetings with obnoxious and arrogant people or just browsing through my Twitter feed. People can be rude. People can be judgemental. People can be horrible. People can think that your business is their business. People can think that they are always right.
And all of these things stress me out and make me angry. So angry that I could be rude, I could be judgemental and I could be horrible. But I wasn’t raised to act that way, so I try to rise above these moments of stupidity. But to be honest sometimes it’s so damn hard and all I want to do is to snap at the horrid person, this person who thinks their needs/space/day is more important than mine. But I don’t. I try to remember that they aren’t me and they have different priorities and maybe they wouldn’t even care what I had to say. Maybe they don’t think they’re doing anything wrong. Saying something back won’t get me anywhere. So I rise above, like I was raised to do, and I hope that karma will kick in for both of us.
What about you, how do you handle rude, angry, nasty people?
***Sorry for the moan but this week has involved far too many inconsiderate idiots on the tube who believe their journey is more important than mine.***
Earlier in the year I read about this tag over here on The Book Journal – I love Jennie’s book blog fyi. Ever since then I’ve had the questions in a draft post, ready to be answered. Well I’ve finally been productive and completed the post, so here it is…
Which book is your favourite?
Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban. It’s always been this book and it always will be. I think it’s probably because we get introduced to some many important people in this book – Remus Lupin, Sirius Black, Peter Pettigrew.
Which film is your favourite?
Deathly Hallows, both parts. I think the film version of book 7 was really well done. It’s just a fantastic way to end an epic series.
Which book is your least favourite?
Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets. Although I now know how important this book is, I’m still not really a fan.
Which film is your least favourite?
Probably films one and two. They were just too safe, too magical and too Hollywood for the story they were telling.
Which part of the books or films made you cry?
Sirius falling through the veil. It’s so well done in the book, but the film? That’s a whole new level, the acting by Daniel Radcliffe and David Thewlis is unbelievable.
When Harry trashes Dumbledore’s office.
Arthur getting injured.
Molly’s reaction to the boggart in Grimmauld Place
The list goes on and on.
If you could hook up with any character, who would it be?
Who is your favourite character?
Hermione Granger. Smart, Loyal, Just, Brave. I want to be her when I grow up.
Who is your least favourite character?
Dolores Umbridge. I despise that woman.
What is your favourite line?
I’m a girl that loves quotes so this is an extremely tough question. Right now it’s the one below, but this will change again soon.
“Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times, when one only remembers to turn on the light.” – Albus Dumbledore
What would your patronus be?
Ooh good question, I always thing it should have some sort of meaning, but I’m not sure what mine would be. so I’m going to say some sort of bird.
If you could have the Resurrection Stone, Invisibility Cloak or Elder Wand, which would you choose?
Invisibility Cloak. I think that’s the less dangerous of them all. Plus the invisibility bit of it sounds fun!
Which house would you be in?
According to Pottermore I’m a Hufflepuff.
If you could meet any member of the cast, who would it be?
Maggie Smith. I think she’s amazing, a living legend.
If you were on the Quidditch team, which position would you play?
I think a beater. I’m always very aware of everything that’s going on around me so I think it’s perfect. Plus it would be the perfect way to work off some rage!
Were you happy with the ending?
Yes, and no. I think every time you read a book you like to plan the ending – or at least I do. And that’s exactly how I was here, so yes there are things that I would change, but that’s not for me to do.
How much does Harry Potter mean to you?
This series is epic, it formed such a huge part of my childhood and it taught me so much. People who think this is just another kid’s book are so wrong. It’s so so much more than this.
Has anyone else done this tag yet? Send me your links if you have as I’m always always happy to chat Potter.
p.s. I borrowed Fi’s Gryffindor scarf for the background in these pictures. I’m planning to purchase a Hufflepuff scarf for myself when I next visit the Happy Potter studio tour(in November!).
For the past three years the youngest Evans sibling has been studying in Sheffield. This means that every October the rest of the Evans family have made the trip up to visit for birthday adventures, because any birthday must involve family. It’s the law. At least in our family anyway!
In previous years we have explored Sheffield and Bakewell so this time we opted to go a little further south and stay near Matlock. We found a holiday cottage in the middle of nowhere and we were set.
There were no big plans for the weekend, it was a take it as it comes moment. The only thing we got slightly organised about was the presents and the Hummingbird Bakery cake – after all you’re only 21 once.
The rest of the weekend involved long walks, bananagrams, champagne, a lovely dinner out, lie ins, cooked breakfast, walks around the reservoir, cake, arcade games, Chatsworth House, vintage furniture shops and road trips.
The awesome cottage decor included this saddle!
Birthday celebrations are happening today. That cake needs to be in my tummy now.
As we nattered about over here it was recently the parental units 60th birthday and they decided to celebrate in style with an amazing party at Clandon Park, a beautiful National Trust property. As you can see from the below they did a brilliant job organising the party, with lots of little details and personal touches, all within the purple theme – there were old pictures of everyone on the walls, beautiful planters filled with purple flowers and old school songs on the disco [there’s a chance I squealed when Ain’t No Mountain High Enough came on!] and a brilliant magician on hand to dazzle and amaze us all. It was truly brilliant to be surrounded by so many lovely friends and family as we munched on yummy food, made the parental units (well Mum) cry in our speech and danced the night away.
But enough of what the party was like, what did we wear I hear you cry!? Well after much deliberation we settled on the below…
We were pretty pleased with our outfits and both got lots of compliments, which is always nice (as did Becca – the tall skinny one next to us!). Also we were able to dance all night without being uncomfortable, a sign of a good outfit don’t you think? What about you, what would you wear for such an event?
I’m just going to put it out there and say that this recipe for Mac and Cheese is the best recipe you will find. It would be impossible to beat it. And no I’m not even slightly kidding. It’s PHENOMENALLY good and just perfect for the upcoming cooler evenings and lazy Sundays on the sofa (that’s not just me right?).
pre-oven mac & cheese
Growing up we weren’t a big Mac and Cheese family – in face I don’t think I really ate it. I had images of it being all gloopy and rubbery so wasn’t really that fussed. The one experience related to Mac and Cheese that I remember was when I was travelling and for an entire week in San Francisco those little pots of microwaveable Mac and Cheese was all I ate. That sort of put me off it, unsurprisingly. However a few years ago my Dad discovered a recipe for Mac and Cheese that added mushrooms and artichoke hearts and a layer of tomatoes on top. Ever since that day we’ve never looked back. When the need for a comforting dish arises, this is the one. It’s the perfect item for hangovers, lazy Sundays, evenings with friends or big dinner parties – never underestimate the power of adding unusual items to a pasta bake to make people think you’ve made something extraordinary!
Cook your macaroni so it’s a little al dente
Make a big old vat of cheesesauce (don’t forget lots of ground pepper needs to be added)
Fry your mushrooms and cook your broccoli
Drain the artichoke hearts
Add a third of the macaroni to an ovenproof dish and throw in some of the veggies
Add a quarter of the sauce and mix it all together in the dish
Repeat twice and then pour the remainder of the sauce over the top
Layer the top with a sprinkle of grated cheese and sliced tomatoes
Bake for 45 minutes on a medium heat
Devour it ALL in one sitting
So tell me, what are your best autumnal comfort foods? What must I try next? Also do you ever add extra things to your mac & cheese – have I missed anything that tastes amazing? Please send me your combo suggestions!
The other day I spotted the Autumn tag over on Jennie’s lovely blog and knew I’d have to give it a whirl asap. After all I love Autumn and I love a tag post. So let’s dive into all things autumnal and discuss the best season ever!
1 – Okay, we’re talking coffee. What is your favourite seasonal drink from Starbucks/Costa/Cafe Nero? Ooh this is a tricky one as I generally love all the red cup drinks from Starbucks. You can keep all the Costa and Cafe Nero ones – yucky coffee alert! I do love a Starbucks mint hot chocolate but I suppose that’s not really seasonal as you can get that all year. So I’ll go with my most recent Starbucks red cup favourite: The Praline Mocha. It was like drinking melted Guylian (or Gillian if you’re an Evans) chocolates. Bliss.
2 – Accessories – What do you opt for – boots, scarf, gloves? I always have everything I can possibly have, although I like to slowly introduce each item so that I can stay warm as it gets colder. So right now I’m in boots and I’ve got a thin scarf with my leather jacket and I guess in a month or so I’ll switch the jacket and scarf for wool versions of each and then throw the gloves on too. By December the bright pink woolly bobble hat will have made an appearance ready to take me through the end of Autumn and in to Winter. You can’t beat a few woolly accessories.
3 – Music – What do you love to listen to during the Autumn? To be honest my music doesn’t differ due to the season, although of course by mid October (so this week) it’s okay to get the Christmas songs on. But apart from that it’s a year round soundtrack of Taylor Swift, Aretha Franklin, One Republic, Ed Sheeran, Paramore, Lady Antebellum, 30 Seconds to Mars and a whole lot more.
4 – Perfume – what’s your favourite scent at this time of the year? I love the Daisy set of perfumes, so I’ll start wearing the black and gold bottle one soon (I have no idea what it’s called that’s how little I care about perfume).
5 – Candles – which scents will you be burning this season? We’ve just got a new Apple Blossom scented candle which is delicious and I’m really enjoying burning – although of course it’s not very autumnal! It just smells like the outdoors which is amazing right now with the dark sky outside. I’ve also got a bright orange autumn scented one that’s just begging to be started, but I’m holding off on that for a little bit as I know it’ll go so quickly as soon as I smell the gorgeous scent.
6 – What do you love most about Autumn? Ooh so many things, which are perfectly summed up in Sunny Sweet Pea’s recent post Autumn, the year’s last, loveliest smile. I love the fresh crisp air, buying a new coat and boots, the crunch of the leaves underfoot, the bonfire parties, the beautiful frosty mornings, bundling up in layers, the excuse of snuggling on the sofa with a good book, log fires, warming stews, jumping in muddy puddles, being chilly, stomping in the woods, the sound of the rain on the windows, adding marshmallows to hot drinks and so much more.
7 – Favourite make up look? I’m not a big make up person, in fact I don’t even wear it every day. So I don’t have a fave Autumn make up look to share with you all. Just lots and lots of lip balm and moisturiser.
8 – What are you looking forward to most during this season? Doing all the things mentioned in question 6 multiple times. Plus I also want to stomp round and explore more London parks than I have before – I’m hoping to find time to explore Regent’s Park and Hampstead Heath properly this Autumn.
Exciting things are happening people! Just last weekend we were celebrating Becca’s 21st birthday in the Peak District and tonight we’ll be celebrating our parents’ 60th birthday with a rather awesome party with loads of family and friends. So far I’m LOVING October and all its celebrations!
This weekend’s party is at a National Trust property, near to my parents, so it’s set to be quite fancy, which has me excited as it’s an excuse to get all dressed up! It’ll be a nice chance to my usual uniform of jeans and a t-shirt or a jersey dress and black tights (plus statement necklace of course!). Oh and there’s a theme: a touch of purple. So something needs to be a shade of purple – the shoes, the dress, the nails, the bag, etc… Such decisions! I love an occasion so it’s been great fun the last few weeks as we’ve searched for the perfect outfit and planned the necessary accessories.
Today I’m sharing some of the things we found, which may or not be what we end up going for…
Check back in next week and I’ll share with you what we ended up wearing! But before then tell me, any favourite items which you think I must wear? I’d be interested to know. And if you we’re coming along too what would you choose, a skirt/top combo or dress and where would you get your touch of purple from?
As Fi mentioned in a previous post someone amazing (aka me) bought her the new Mary Berry cookbook. Now as is the normal occurrence when a new cookbook arrives, we set out to try a new recipe from the book straight away. Surely that’s the first thing anyone does when they get a new recipe book?
Presents for @fievans @mary1evans & @beccaevans93 #signed copies of #cookstheperfect
When looking through for something new to cook I knew that I wanted something quick, easy and warm – it was on one of those chilly September days, so comfort was at the top of the list. One of the first things I found was a recipe called Swiss Chicken, Spinach, & Mushroom Bake which fitted the bill perfectly. Another plus to choosing this recipe was that I had all the ingredients already, well apart from chicken, but I had turkey so figured that would do just as well.
To make the recipe of loveliness for 6 people follow this recipe…
Ingredients – 750g fresh spinach 1/4 tsp grated nutmeg salt and pepper 725g turkey – the original recipe uses chicken, but we didn’t have any so it was turkey for us. 2 tbsp olive oil 25g butter 200g button mushrooms sliced 1 garlic clove 200ml creme fraiche 75g Gruyere cheese, grated
Cook the spinach – Trim the thick stalks off of the spinach, wash and place into a large pan, cover and cook for 5 minutes. Drain it, chop it and return it to the pan. Next toss back into the pan, add the nutmeg and seasoning and toss the spinach over a high heat to dry it. Finally layer the spinach over the bottom of your baking dish.
Preheat the oven to 220C.
Cook the turkey fillets – season the meat and heat the oil in a non-stick frying pan. Once hot, add the turkey in batches, frying over a medium heat for 2 minutes on each side. Layer the turkey over the spinach.
Make the sauce – melt the butter in the frying pan, add the sliced mushrooms, garlic, salt and pepper and fry over a medium heat for 5 minutes, stirring continuously. Add the creme fraiche a spoonful at a time and stir for a minute or two until there’s a creamy sauce. Pour the sauce over the turkey pieces.
Sprinkle with the cheese and bake for 30 minutes.
We served this really simply with baked potatoes and brocolli, and it was exactly what we needed. Perfectly warm and comforting. Try it and see what you think.
One of the most memorable events of my life happened on this day 21 years ago. I can vividly remember being woken at 6am on that day and getting bundled into the car still in my pj’s and taken to my best friend’s house as Mum and Dad hurried to the hospital. Two and half hours later there was a phone call, just before we left for school, and we were given the news. Our little sister was here, three whole days early – how exciting! As an eight year old this was possibly the most exciting thing to ever happen to us and we couldn’t wait to meet this new person and start ‘playing’ with her and dressing her up!
Twenty one years later and that little baby is now 21 years old – eek! We are so lucky to have Becca as a younger sister; to spoil, wind up, natter with and be best friends with. I know everyone says their family is the best, but ours really is and this sister is one of the best in existence and below are a few of the reason’s why…
So Becca, sister extraordinaire, have an amazing birthday. You really are the best sister ever and you deserve an awesome day. And don’t disown us because we’ve put these lovely snaps up off you – you know you love them really!
Confession time. I’m an addict. I can’t ignore the sparkles and shininess. I’m unable to walk past any shop that has the bright coloured ones on display. Show me one that has big round beads and I’m a goner and if there’s one that’s neon it’s mine as soon as I spot it. Yes I admit I can’t say no to a statement necklace.
Being a supremely lazy dresser it’s obvious I’d fall for the statement necklace. What easier way is there to get compliments on your outfit? Simply bung the nearest beaded necklace on top of a plain Gap t-shirt and jeans or the nearest bright confection on with your beloved stripy dress and you’re set. However the last two weeks have been ridiculous in their statement necklace purchasing even for me. In the space of three days I’d bought three, one from accessorize that I’ve been pining over for AGES and could justify in a pre flight airport purchase and two from a Portuguese shop which was selling amazing necklaces for £10. Yes TEN ACTUAL POUNDS. I know! Thankfully Laura was as trigger happy with the spending as me and she also bought three necklaces. Basically we’re set for a few months with awesome necklaces!
And here they are all their glory… Tell us which is your favourite? It’s one of mine right?!